As a child my sisters and I suffered from poverty. We were raised on government funding. My mother received a welfare check once a month and she could barely afford to pay all of her bills. She also received food stamps so that she could purchase food for my sisters and me. We hardly ever went shopping. The only time we got new things was at the beginning of the school year. It was kind of embarrassing when you hung around children who always looked and dressed nice. We never got the opportunity to do extracurricular activities because my mother did not have the money. My mother was a homemaker while being married to my dad, but after their divorce she never went to work. My household was very stressful. At times I hated being there because it was not much to do. I didn’t excel in school because I was too stressed out about things that were going on in my household. I went to school and built a relationship with my teachers. One of my teachers took me under her wings and treated me as if I was her own child. She would pick me up every weekend and take me to kid friendly places. Going to school and hanging out with her was like a safe haven for me. Even though my grades were poor my teacher still promoted me to the second grade. At that point my mother noticed that I was not so bright. She felt that I couldn’t comprehend and didn’t see how I made it through the first grade. She felt as if my teacher was hindering me so she held me back in the first grade. I went to after school tutorials so that I can get additional help with my lessons. As an educator I want to be very involved with the children and their families. I feel that it is very important to go to the home environments so that educators can get a better understanding and be aware of issues going on in the household that can hinder a child’s learning ability.
The article that I chose will look at whether being poor necessarily results in low self esteem or feelings of shame and whether welfare policies are counterproductive when claimants are stigmatized (University of Oxford, 2010). “Researchers interviewed with children and their parents from UK, Norway, China, India, Pakistan, Uganda, South Korea and Germany and discussed how being poor affects the way they feel about themselves and the way they are regarded by their own community” (University of Oxford, 2010). In the UK some parents went with out to provide for their children to ensure that their child does not feel shame at school. “In China, for example, it might be more important for adults, even in poor families, to maintain "face" and to uphold their own sense of dignity. In parts of India and Pakistan it is possible that loss of "family honour" adds to any sense of personal shame” (University of Oxford, 2010). The researchers plan to work together with policymakers and agencies to deliver policies that tackle poverty effectively while simultaneously recognizing the importance of promoting dignity and a sense of self-respect. This article was very inspirational because the mothers unselfishly gave to provide for their children. In today’s society some parents do not acknowledge their children needs because they are more focused on themselves. It is important for a parent to provide for their children and effectively communicate with their children to address any issues or concerns that they may have to ensure that it is nothing hindering their child academics.
Source: University of Oxford (2010, September 5). Are shame and poverty closely linked?. ScienceDaily. Retrieved November 27, 2010, from http://www.sciencedaily.com /releases/2010/09/100905164823.htm