“Play is the only way the highest intelligence of humankind can unfold.”
I can relate to this quote personally. I remember being this shy kid in front of my family and teachers. When I was outside playing with my friends, I was a totally different person. I would run wild all day just screaming and having fun. I did not have a care in the world. Playing with my friends helped me explore and identify who I truly was.
When I was growing up my family would always tell my parents that I was too mature for my age. When they would come over my friends and I would be dressed up in my mom clothes and heels. We loved to play dress-up. I always played the role of the mother as we played because I was very bossy and liked to give orders.
As a child my mother always encouraged me to go outside and play. She never wanted me or my sisters to stay in the house. She would always tell us to go outside and get from under grown folks as her friends were always at our house. After we got tired of playing outside, we would go inside and play dress-up. My mom clothes and shoes were all over the place as we looked for outfits. Playing dress-up with my friends bring back so many memories. We felt so free. It’s funny that I was always chosen to be the mother. My friends called me bossy. Even in my adulthood many of them still think that I like to take lead to and be in control.
The children in today’s society do not engage in the type of play that I engaged in when I was a child. As a child I enjoyed playing dress-up with my sisters and friends. I would be skeptical about letting my children play dress-up in this day and time because they may get the wrong message. They may feel that it is ok to dress a certain way not knowing that it is a time a place for everything. My mom always told me that how you dress and carry yourself represent who you are. That stuck with me in my adulthood and I take pride in my appearance.
I also enjoyed hanging outside with my friends. We would jump rope and play hop-scotch. There is not much outside play with children in today’s society. They are more consumed with staying inside playing video and computer games I hope that the children in today’s society do not lose sight on life because they do not engage in activities that help them explore themselves.
Play allows self discovery. Through play one can learn who they really are. The type of play that I engaged in as a child allowed me to grow as an individual. I am a very out spoken person. I am not afraid to lead. Playing the role of the mother with my friends contributed to my take charge capabilities. As a future mother and educator, I want to lead and steer my children in the right path so that they can be productive citizens of society.